1986
London, United Kingdom
JOLLYANDJOLLY.TUMBLR.COM
London, United Kingdom
JOLLYANDJOLLY.TUMBLR.COM
A BASHFUL COMPLEX VISIONAIRE THAT PURSUES KINKS AS MEANS OF ESCAPISM
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Bar
BUTT: What kind of relationship do you have with your body?
Bar: Let me introduce you to the fraudulence paradox:
The fraudulence paradox was that the more time and effort you put into trying to appear impressive or attractive to other people, the less impressive or attractive you felt inside — you were a fraud. And the more of a fraud you felt like, the harder you tried to convey an impressive or likable image of yourself so that other people wouldn’t find out what a hollow, fraudulent person you really were.
Logically, you would think that the moment you became aware of this paradox, you’d stop being a fraud and just settle for being yourself (whatever that was) because you’d figure out that being a fraud was a vicious infinite regress that ultimately resulted in being frightened, lonely, alienated...
:D
Compelling answer…
supasexy xx
Hey perfect, what’s new? x
A sexy, wise man….a saintly devilish position to be in…you wear it well.
Been off my head busy that ive been ignoring my butt but all is well… thanks
Great pics, love your choice in underwear and you seem to have a good size kitchen ;-)
Right back at you!!!
YUM!
Yummmmeee yourself…!
H ello bar. How’s the uk?
i like it how you grasp this fraudulence idea .
dont we all…
no, i’m sure not ;)
Bar commented on Claus’s profile. · 1 year ago
thanks for the good share in tumblr :)
Like too…!
intrigued..
very handsome!
I really have to thank my parents; even though i look nothing like them…
Cheers anyhow mate
Nice tumblr
Appreciate it mate
I would say its “nice” too… lol Cheers
PS Great site and great work… truly!
Great blog!
Cheers mate…!!! Your’s is funny ;-)
NEW PICS ONLINE…!!!
Tks for the link Mr Paradox!
what link?
JUST HAD A MISERABLE MORNING ON EBAY… SPENT HALF THE EARLY EARLY MORNING BIDDING ON A PAIR OF SHORTS – THAT I WON… BUT REALIZED WERE NOT MY SIZE… THEN AGAIN I WAS MULTITASKING ON SKYPE AND BIENG VERY VERY NAUGHTY
you are very, very… handsome
Thanks again… i have to say it’s got nothing to do with me? I have to thank my parents; even though i look nothing like them
thank you and you too!!!
how dare you ! it was my line!… :D i love it! it moved!.. or are you creative as me? :)
erm…? i think it would depend how you define creativity and creativity in which field etc etc
Be it better or worse… we’ll have to see somehow?
oh my!
I GOT AN EMAIL OFF MOONPIG TODAY: ARE YOU A MUMMY’S BOY?
NO I AM VERY NOT THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!! I SHALL BE LOOKING FORWARD TO YOUR… ARE YOU A DADDY’S BOY? EMAIL
Good momments. Ive been fraudulant and its a waste of time. Thanks for your words
i think to escape the paradox let go of always being right…
Hence the kink… i must be on the right track. Are you?
if my thought is, i must be…
to be or no to be…? is where im coming from
you could probably tell a lot about me just from that
GUYS IM A BIT LATE ON THIS ONE
BUT I JUST DISCOVERED CAM4… FEELS LIKE HOME!
c’mooonn!
im slightly addicted…
I blame the guys on cam4
no – i take full responsibility; its not there fault, some people are natural born performers. there’s no excuse for logging on and getting my **** out and inviting people over to watch the show, with both our ****s out and doing things to each other, again with our ****s out.
completely my fault ;-(
Don’t be sad. You’ll find your soulmate on cam4. You can trust them. Love is always in the air when you’re logged in with your dick out…with your dicks* out.
Im open to that fairy-tale…. You never know how our happy ending will be scripted- especially in the digital age.
Hows your fairy-tale going?
Thanks pretty boy, you must have a grandpa fixation, but I’ll take the compliment and return the cock twitch.
your too kind…! Grandpas are cool – i like the ones the ones that are still on drugs. Take the compliment because its more than suitable and i guess we can cock twitch together… anyday!
Thanx man u r extra hot too >>
wow, what an amazing comment I think. Or did you mean that i look like a scary as f’ skin head?
no just an intense feeling – somewhat piercing and penetrating
:-))
Forgot to mention hot too mate
i know…! Camera shy and no photogenic ;-(
What shall i bring then?
nice one mate!
ANYONE GOING TO THIS…? I THINK I AM
http://www.meatzine.com/
i dont… will a jock strap do?
Glad to hear your on the mend… Its better to have it all out than keeping it in! You can cry on my shoulder any day providing we get naked after and indulge in other more adventurous watersports than crying
Whats a splutter dog? was it a friend?
thanks :-) your a stylist, are you?
yes….? ;-( and more…!!!
Bar commented on Ciaran’s profile. · 1 year ago
Bar commented on peter’s profile. · 1 year ago
why are you crying?
Interesting theory, the fraudulent paradox — But I’ll need those two extra profile pictures to fully make up my mind about it.
its and interesting theory isnt it…im camera shy and non photogenic but can certainly pass you on some pics…
thank you! i see you also look sleepy around here. very handsome.
Thank you its the look im going for since no one else is doing it… Its different but it does the job and gets me laid
I’m waiting patiently. It’s only a matter of time before that becomes impatiently. *ahem*
Dont cry…!
I like the answer, good one.
guapo…!!
^^) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUeL8SGWwSU
I am the fraudulence paradox …. wanna join me?
Hey there – I like the male gender in your pics on your Tumblr site! Will be interesting to see your next shoots. X
Thanks mate
It needs updating… i’ve done two more since then just waiting for the post production to be done
Will let you know anyhow…Thanks again X
I guess its different from where you are… but noted and agreed!
It is my work – i need to update though as its missing two shoots i recently did
Where can i find your work?
Great face!
LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO KNOWS ABOUT FITNESS AND/OR A PERSONAL TRAINER FOR A WEB BASED PROJECT
IF INTERESTED PLEASE GET IN TOUCH!
AND I WILL FORWARD YOU MORE DETAILS VIA EMAIL
Impressive body, nice face!
Thanks for the accept.
Nice to meet you :)
like ur cute lips and damn H-O-T body too.
bam hot
Damn fine. Nice tattoos too.
bodies help
It primitive common sense
handsome man…